Life Should Be Fun and Exhilarating!
But not at the expense of one’s safety. You wouldn’t go white water rafting without wearing a lifevest (or at least I don’t recommend it), you wouldn’t go jumping out of an airplane without a parachute (I certainly don’t recommend that one either), and you wouldn’t have sex without getting tested and/or wearing a condom…or would you?
Spontaneous sex IS fun and exhilarating, but if you are not prepared and/or haven’t gone through the proper “safety checks” i.e. getting tested – you putting yourself at risk. You might have the time of your life, but after it’s finished, do you really want to go through the pain and suffering of an STD for quite possibly the rest of your life? Yeah, me neither.